{"id":977,"date":"2011-05-06T21:17:33","date_gmt":"2011-05-06T19:17:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tobi3.se\/blog\/?p=977"},"modified":"2011-05-06T21:56:57","modified_gmt":"2011-05-06T19:56:57","slug":"alska-utan-att-tycka-om","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tobi3.se\/blog\/en\/2011\/05\/06\/alska-utan-att-tycka-om\/","title":{"rendered":"Can I love, even if I don&#8217;t like someone?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><figure id=\"attachment_978\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-978\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/tobi3.se\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/TorkatLovIGras-Safa.jpg\" alt=\"Old leaf on fresh grass. Safa Park, Dubai (April 2011)\" title=\"Old leaf on fresh grass. Safa Park, Dubai (April 2011)\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" class=\"size-full wp-image-978\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tobi3.se\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/TorkatLovIGras-Safa.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tobi3.se\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/TorkatLovIGras-Safa-100x66.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-978\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Old leaf on fresh grass. Safa Park, Dubai (April 2011)<\/figcaption><\/figure>Do I have to like everyone?<br \/>\nIs it even possible to like each and everybody?<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t think so.<\/p>\n<p>But then there are people, who are a piece of my life, whether I like it, or not.<br \/>\nDo I have to like them?<br \/>\nDon&#8217;t think so, neither.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>But i can always <strong>love<\/strong> them<br \/>\njust like I <strong>love everyone<\/strong><br \/>\nand all that is alive:<\/p>\n<p>I accept them,<br \/>\njust like they are.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m prepared to help them, in different ways,<br \/>\nif I feel that&#8217;s the right thing to do.<\/p>\n<p>I sincerely hope that they will:<br \/>\nstand up to their challenges,<br \/>\ndevelop themselves,<br \/>\nbe healthy,<br \/>\nand enjoy their life.<\/p>\n<p>I also need to be careful not to judge them,<br \/>\nbut see what I can learn from them.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t have to like everyone,<br \/>\nI can still love them.<\/p>\n<p><em>PS! 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